As tempting as it is to take everything at face value in a new relationship, there are many guys out there who are not honest.
Today, the best Orange County matchmaking service, Orange County Singles, is going to show you signs your new boyfriend is incapable of being honest with you.
Ladies, if he checks a few of these signs, you might be dating a compulsive liar.
1. He moves a little too fast.
Listen, we’re all about love at first sight and new romances, but if this guy is asking you to be his girlfriend before he even learns your birthday, you may have a liar on your hands. Usually, when guys move too fast, it’s because he’s trying to cover up an issue or avoid dealing with it altogether.
2. He loves to be the center of attention.
As odd as this may seem, no one loves to be in the spotlight more than a liar. They get a rush out of having everyone’s eyes on them and they often exaggerate stories to feel good about themselves. Though they would never admit it, they feel an insatiable need to impress everyone in order to get approval. A person who isn’t comfortable being themselves around others is not boyfriend material.
3. He leaves the room to talk on the phone.
Or places his phone face down so you can’t see who’s calling or texting. Yes, everyone is entitled to their privacy, but if you notice that your new boyfriend has a habit of keeping his phone as far away from you as possible, it’s probably because he knows something may come up that he doesn’t want you to see. The same red flag should be raised when it comes to phone calls. If he has to leave the room to make or receive a phone call, we’re willing to bet that it’s not his mother calling.
4. Basic questions scare him.
Although there are some pretty skilled liars out there, body language is usually key for spotting one. If a simple question such as, “What did you do today?” scares him and makes him fidget, look away or stumble over his words, run. You’re dealing with a liar.
5. He always gets defensive.
When an honest person is put on the spot, they don’t cave under pressure. They answer questions calmly because they know they are telling the truth. A compulsive liar, on the other hand, will get very defensive when you ask them questions. Remember, if he has nothing to hide, he has no reason to get defensive.
6. He has amnesia all the time.
Keeping up with lies can be a full-time job – that’s why most people tell the truth. However, in the case of Mr. Compulsive Liar, rather than facing the truth head-on, he develops amnesia all the time and doesn’t remember any questionable actions from the past, even if said past was only a few hours ago.
If you’re dating a new man who’s statements and actions are starting to make you scratch your head, you know what you have to do. You don’t want to be stuck in a relationship with someone you can’t trust. Relationships without trust never work out. Leave this lying guy today and find someone who is honest and trustworthy.
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